Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Girls and Boys

I was talking to a girlfriend a while back and we both agree that the feminist movement albeit necessary has in some ways taken some things away from those of us who like being traditional women. Don't get me wrong I wants my equal pay for equal work but I also want him to pay on our first date at least. Besides most of us still don't have the equal pay anyway and now thanks to our so called equalty we are expected to pick up the bill too. We are expected to take care of a whole lot of things by ourselves. but wait, was that what we wanted?Did we want to do without men all together? Did we want to be more like men and worse yet have them become more like us? Well I must rebel!!!

As a woman I want a man to be a man. Yes I want him to take out the trash,carry the heavy bags all that and I don't care who knows it! I want him to make the first move most of the time. I want to use my feminine wiles to get what I want from my mate and I don't want him to have the ammo of "sisters are doing it for themselves" to use against me. While I do like the sensitive man every now and then I do not want him all the time talking about his needs and wants and feelings. Sometimes just sometimes I'd like a grunting caveman to sit quietly with his beer and his hand of choice down the front of his pants, watching the game, so that I his wife/girlfriend can gossip with my friends without him wanting to know what I'm talking about or worse wanting me to share my feelings with him!!! And last but not least I want to be completely in charge of the decorating of the house. Holla if you hear me.

Don't panic I don't want to turn back the hands of time I just want to enjoy being a girl again.is that so wrong?

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