Fathers and Daughters

Fathers are an important and necessary component in their daughters lives. I repeat fathers are necessary. Daughters need their fathers love, acceptance and protection. I wonder if the men who no longer reside with their daughters even think about how much their daughters need them. How many women are unable to form healthy relationships because they lack the building block of a fathers love.I also wonder about the fathers living with their daughters who don't spend adequate time with them. Why don't you think it's important to know your female offspring? Why can't you relate to them. Why can't you even try?

Please don't get me wrong I know there are good loving fathers out there. I'm not talking about you so calm down. For all those fathers who do right by their little girls there are others who are so anti - woman that they can't even relate to their own flesh and blood. These poor girls become the recipients of all kinds of unrealistic expectations. Let me give an example, the woman who's taught to be totally independent ie. the bring home the bacon, fry it up in a pan, and never ever let you forget your a man kind of women. The Madonna/whores.Who but a man thought this stuff up? Why do women try to live up to this? I say It's their fathers approval of such ideology and the need to please their fathers. By the way mothers could help if they weren't in the same boat but when the ship is sinking it's every girl for herself.

My suggestion is this, and it's a tall order. Teach yourselves how to love women in general by going all out for your little girls. You won't make them a burden to some other man.In fact you'll be setting up a standard to live by. You'll be showing the world what you think she's worth. You'll give her permission to expect more from her mate because as her father you are her first love. Her blueprint. You can give her a strong foundation or a sink hole to build on it's up to you.

I'm asking for all the women who have that nagging self doubt, for the ones who are afraid they'll never find the right man. For the ones who think their too fat to be loved. For the ones who are so distrustful of men that they sabotage good relationships. I am asking for myself. Please let me see more loving, giving,gentle men. I extend an invitation to the grandfathers, uncles,and trusted family friends.Mentor a girl who needs a father.I know you know one.Treat her like a lady now and she'll reflect all that loving energy in her adult years.